Niaj hnub no, zoo li txhua tus uas muaj kev xav me ntsis rau txhua yam yog tso lo lus "kink" thiab "fetish."
"Kuv yeej muaj ice cream kink," ib txhia yuav hais tom qab indulging nyob rau hauv rov qab-rau-rov qab cov khoom qab zib.
Tias yog vim li cas peb tau muab tso ua ke no txhais lus qhia rau kinks thiab fetishes.Nyob rau hauv qab no, nyeem rau kev piav qhia txog dab tsi ib tug kink yog dab tsi thiab fetish yog dab tsi - thiab kev nkag siab ntawm yuav ua li cas los tshawb txog tej zaum kinks thiab fetishes.
Lub kink yog txhua yam uas ob leeg dhau mus dhau ntawm cov ciam teb ntawm cov neeg zej zog suav tias yog "ib txwm" kev sib deev thiab ua rau muaj kev xav sib deev.
Vim tias dab tsi ua rau lub kink nyob ntawm seb koj qhov kev sib raug zoo li qub lossis tsis yog, nws yog nyob ntawm ntau yam, suav nrog:
Yog li, piv txwv li, ib tus neeg uas feem ntau mloog cov suab paj nruag hauv lub tebchaws (tsis suav nrog kev sib tham hauv qhov quav ntau dhau) yuav pom lawv txoj kev lom zem ntawm qhov quav ntawm qhov quav. Ntawm qhov tod tes, cov neeg uas nyiam zaj nkauj yog "Truffle Butter" tsuas yog xav tias lawv txoj kev hlub ntawm qhov quav yog qhov nyiam.
Qhov ntawd txhais tau tias yog ib tug neeg hais tias lawv txawv txawv, koj yuav tsum nug cov lus tshwj xeeb kom paub tias txhais tau li cas. Tau kawg, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob nug ~ leej twg ~ ib lo lus nug ntawm tus kheej.
"Qhov feem ntau kinks yog tej zaum yog kev tswj hwm thiab kev xa tawm, kev ua qhev thiab kev tu siab (qhov ntawd yog cov ntawv hauv BDSM sawv cev rau), "hais tias kev sib deev hacker thiab tus kws qhia txog poj niam txiv neej Kenneth Play, ntawm lub zej zog sib deev-zoo thoob ntiaj teb Hacienda Villa tus tsim.
Raws li sexologist Dr. Carol poj huab tais ntawm kev sib deev cov khoom ua si lub tuam txhab Good Vibrations, muaj ib co kev lees txais cov ntsiab lus ntawm fetishes.
"Tam sim no, cov kws qhia txog poj niam txiv neej tsis tshua txhais tias fetishes yuav tsum yog ib feem ntawm kev sib deev," Poj huab tais hais tias.
Piv txwv li, ib tug neeg uas muaj lub ntsej muag liab liab tuaj yeem muaj peev xwm (thiab txaus siab!) kom muaj kev sib deev nrog ib tus neeg uas tsis muaj taub hau liab, nws hais tias.
Tyler Sparks, tus kws qhia ntawv porn thiab tus tsim ntawm Organic Loven, yog ib lub khw muag khoom loj tshaj plaws BIPOC, hais tias qhov sib txawv yog qee zaum txhais tias qhov txawv ntawm qhov xav tau (fetishes) thiab nyiam (kinks).
"Ib tug neeg pom tias hnav heels siab thaum pw ua ke ua rau muaj kev zoo siab," "Tab sis cov neeg uas yuav tsum hnav heels siab thaum pw ua ke kom muaj kev xav tau siab heel fetishes."
Qee lub sij hawm qhov kev sib txawv no txhais tau hais tias qhov sib txawv ntawm qhov tshwj xeeb aroused los ntawm ib qho kev sib deev kev ua, thaj chaw, los yog dynamic (kink) thiab tshwj xeeb aroused los ntawm ib yam khoom, khoom, los yog tsis-genital lub cev ib feem (fetish).
Yog tias koj tab tom sim txiav txim siab tias qee yam yog kink lossis fetish, koj tuaj yeem nug koj tus kheej qee cov lus nug:
Yog lawm.Koj tej zaum muaj ib qho quirk thiab fetish.lossis ob qho tib si.Koj yuav muaj qee hnub uas xav tias zoo li kink, thiab lwm yam kev sib tsoo.
"Kev tshawb nrhiav ob qho tib si qhib rau kev lom zem porn, ua ncaj ncees txog qhov koj muaj nuj nqis tiag tiag thiab nrhiav kev hloov pauv, qee zaum cuam tshuam nrog kev txaj muag ntawm qhov sib txawv, thiab paub txog tias cov no ua si hauv koj lub neej thiab kev sib deev nrog cov neeg koom tes hauv kev coj cwj pwm," nws hais.
Play hais tias "Rau qee tus neeg, lawv cov fetishes thiab fetishes yog me ntsis overt," Yog hais tias, piv txwv li, nyob rau hauv lub caij ntuj sov ntawm koj cov hluas, koj pab tsis tau tab sis saib ntawm ko taw ntawm txhua tus hnav khau khiab, thiab xav tias horny ntawm qhov pom ntawm taw, koj yuav ib txwm paub tias koj hlub ko taw.
Lub caij no, rau lwm tus, lub kink lossis fetish tej zaum yuav yog ib yam uas lawv nrhiav tau los ntawm kev tshawb nrhiav tej yam, xws li porn, tsos, lossis tus hlub tshiab uas nthuav tawm lawv rau yam tshiab.Thaum ntsib yam tshiab, koj pom txhua yam ntawm yam koj nyiam thiab tsis nyiam, nws hais.
Yog tias koj nyob hauv qhov chaw zaum kawg thiab xav paub ntau ntxiv txog koj qhov kev xav thiab fetishes, cov lus qhia no yuav pab tau.
"Muaj kev ntsuam xyuas online dawb, hu ua BDSM test, uas tuaj yeem pab koj kawm ntxiv txog cov kinks uas koj nyiam," Sparks hais tias "Nws yog qhov pib zoo."
Muab ntau yam kev coj cwj pwm, kev npaj, qhov chaw, thiab cov khoom rau hauv cov npe ntawm txhua kab raws li koj nyiam hauv kev sim, thiab daim ntawv "yog-tsis yog-tej zaum" tuaj yeem pab koj txheeb xyuas cov khoom uas ua rau koj lub cev zoo siab.
Muaj ntau yam Yog-Tsis yog-Tej zaum cov npe hauv Is Taws Nem.Tab sis txhawm rau txheeb xyuas koj qhov quirks thiab fetishes, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom muaj ib lub txhab nyiaj hauv qab, zoo li qhov no los ntawm Bex Talks.
Nws tau hais tias "Raws li tib neeg kev paub dhau los, txhua yam thiab cov xwm txheej hloov pauv," nws hais. "Qee lub sij hawm tej yam uas ua rau koj zoo siab hauv koj lub xyoo 20s tsis muaj qhov zoo sib xws.Tab sis thaum peb paub ntau ntxiv txog peb lub cev thiab kev ntshaw, vim tib neeg xav paub ntau ntxiv, peb nrhiav kev sib txawv. "
Los ntawm cov yeeb yaj kiab porn mus rau sau ntawv porn, cov rooj sib tham hauv online rau kev sib tham platforms, hauv internet yog tag nrho ntawm cov cib fim los kawm ntxiv txog koj cov fetishes thiab fetishes.
Nws hais tias "Mus saib lub vev xaib porn, xws li Royal Fetish Films, muab sijhawm rau koj pom koj qhov kev ua yeeb yam," nws hais.Nyob ntawd koj yuav pom ntau tus neeg ib yam li koj uas tab tom tshawb nrhiav, paub txog thiab / lossis kev cob qhia. "
Los ntawm cov chaw no, nws hais tias, koj tuaj yeem nyeem lawv cov dab neeg thiab tej zaum yuav nug ib pawg neeg saib xyuas cov lus nug lossis ob qho ntawm koj tus kheej quirks lossis lawv nrhiav tau lawv li cas.
Kev dai ntawm koj qhov chaw xis nyob thiab thaj chaw tsis xis nyob tuaj yeem pab koj nkag siab zoo dua koj txoj kev sib deev thiab fetishes, hais tias Sparks.
"Kev paub txog koj tus kheej ciam teb tuaj yeem pab koj txheeb xyuas qhov koj nyiam tshawb nrhiav thiab tsis yog dab tsi," nws hais.
Raws nraim qhov koj yuav kawm yuav txawv nyob ntawm qhov tshwj xeeb ~ yam uas koj xav tshawb nrhiav.Tab sis qhov twg: nws yog ib qho yuav tsum tau.
Play hais tias "Kev kawm yuav tsum ua ntej koj qhov kev paub dhau los, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum nws los txog rau txhua yam uas cuam tshuam nrog lub zog ua si, mob, txwv tsis pub, lossis lwm yam uas yuav suav tias yog qhov txaus ntshai," Play hais.
Rau kev kawm zoo li no, nws pom zoo kom ntiav ib tus kws tshaj lij kev sib deev - piv txwv li, tus kws qhia kev sib deev, tus kws kho mob sib deev, tus neeg nyiag deev deev, lossis tus neeg ua haujlwm sib deev.
Poj huab tais hais ntxiv tias cov neeg ua haujlwm sib deev yuav muaj kev paub dhau los hauv ob qho tib si, ua rau lawv muaj kev xaiv zoo rau kev tshawb nrhiav cov kinks lossis fetishes thawj zaug.
"Cov kws tshaj lij yuav muaj cov ntaub ntawv ntau ntxiv txog ntau yam kinks, thiab nws yooj yim dua los tham thiab sib tham nrog, thiab nws tuaj yeem ua tau zoo li lub chaw kuaj sim rau kev tshawb nrhiav koj qhov kev sib deev," nws hais.
Yog tias koj xav tshawb nrhiav nrog tus khub, nws hais tias nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb los xaiv tus khub uas koj nyiam tham nrog - thiab rov ua dua.
"Txawm hais tias ua ntej koj koom nrog ntau hom kev sib deev ua si nrog ib tus neeg, koj tuaj yeem kawm paub tias lawv nyiam kev sib deev, nws yooj yim npaum li cas los sib txuas lus nrog lawv, thiab seb lawv puas txiav txim siab txog lwm tus kev xaiv kev sib deev los txiav txim seb lawv puas haum zoo," nws hais.
Nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los xaiv tus khub uas feem ntau nyiam nrog koj lub cev lus (thiab rov ua dua) thiab kam ua haujlwm nrog koj ntawm kev tshawb fawb ua ntej.
Thaum kawg, nws tsis muaj teeb meem yog tias tej yam uas koj nyiam hauv kev sib deev raug cais ua kinky, fetish, lossis tsis yog!Tab sis tshawb xyuas qhov ua rau koj muaj kev xyiv fab hauv txoj kev nyab xeeb, dawb thiab zoo siab.
Gabrielle Kassel yog New York-based kev sib deev thiab kev noj qab haus huv tus kws sau ntawv thiab CrossFit Qib 1 tus kws qhia.Nws tau dhau los ua ib tus neeg sawv ntxov, sim ntau dua 200 vibrators, noj, haus, txhuam hniav nrog hluav taws - txhua yam hauv lub npe ntawm kev sau xov xwm.Thaum nws lub sijhawm dawb, nws tuaj yeem nyeem cov phau ntawv pab tus kheej thiab kev hlub dab neeg, rooj zaum xovxwm lossis ncej puab ntawm Instagram.
Kev lom zem ntawm cov khoom ua si sib deev tsis nres nrog vibrators!Yog tias koj npaj yuav ntxiv cov khoom ua si ntxiv… nyeem ntxiv… cov khoom ua si qib siab zoo li pob ntsaws…
Koj yuav tsum tau zoo dua li faux BDSM hauv Tsib caug ntxoov Grey, yog li peb tau muab tso ua ke ib daim ntawv txaj hais txog kev sib deev mloog lus. Cia peb khawb tob!
Kev tshawb nrhiav urethral suav nrog kev tso cov khoom ua si rau hauv cov zis - lub raj uas nqa cov zis tawm ntawm lub zais zis.Qhov kev xyaum no pib nrog…
Nurx yog lub tuam txhab kev noj qab haus huv uas muab kev tiv thaiv kev yug menyuam, kev tiv thaiv thaum muaj xwm txheej ceev, PrEP, thiab STI cov khoom siv hauv tsev.
Paub koj tus kab mob STI tam sim no, suav nrog koj tus kab mob gonorrhea, yog qhov tseem ceeb.Kev kuaj kab mob gonorrhea hauv tsev ua kom yooj yim dua.Ntawm no yog yuav pib li cas.
Tes ua hauj lwm tsis yog ib tug hluas fodder xwb.Lawv yog ib qho kev lom zem ua si rau tag nrho cov kev sib deev active noov tswv thiab lawv cov neeg koom tes.Ntawm no yog yuav ua li cas muab…
Thaum nws los txog rau zaub mov, tej zaum koj yuav xav txog qhov koj tab tom tso rau hauv koj lub cev, yog li vim li cas ho tsis txuas ntxiv qhov kev txiav txim siab rau cov roj nplua nyeem uas koj siv ...